I’m not going to be shy about the fact that it was bouts of cycling and sometimes overwhelming fear, confusion and anxiety that created the demand for more conscious tuning into the energies with which I want to resonate, namely those of forward-thinking, progress and liberation.

First a look at the negative side. Control is a trap, and people who give in to control acted out upon them (stalkers or targets) tend to become further entrapped in control. If left unchecked, unconscious responses to the pressures of Control are: increased isolation and squelching of the spirit (what targets need to avoid or recover from as soon as they can), OR the temptation to control others (this is the option stalkers have chosen). Trying to find a safe place, the more witting stalking perpetrators have come to believe that control is truly freedom or personal power (of course it’s not); control always ends up controlling the controller. For targets the goal of liberating oneself from the pressures of Control is equally important.

When a person becomes blinded by control they are essentially potential vectors of attack for the Systems of Control. Whether we’re talking about a potential stalker or a target, without access to the vital life force (pure consciousness / creativity), it can appear that the only source of energy is to just give up or try to suck energy from others. Just as negativity (namely stranglehold control) is a force able to influence those who are tuned into fear, wrath and other extremes of negative emotion, so too can love, compassion and creativity influence one’s own personal energy field. All that is required is tuning into these frequencies.

For some people who have become more enmeshed within layers of control, they become unable to see freedom, growth and love, the universal and ambient energies permeating all space. Resisting control and oppression is key to maintaining a positive emotional state and outlook. Besides promoting mental health, maintaining as positive an outlook as possible raises your frequency so that you function largely outside the range of opportunistic stalkers and negative entities in general.

Regaining and maintaining a sense of positivity and progress can be as simple as putting up words and pictures that inspire you with feelings of joy, or something more involved like turning one’s awareness inward to make order of the negative experiences and turn them into opportunities for personal growth. Whatever it is that gives you a sense of meaning or positivity, utilize that, let it lead you to friendly ground.

Sending Love

I think it is important to add a few notes about the more New Age philosophy of ’sending love’ to negative entities (people or otherwise). My experience has shown me that nurturing a positive outlook is much more effective and quite different from ’sending love to nefarious beings’. It seems that when people talk about their success with sending positivity to negative beings, what they have really done is tuned into positivity themselves –that is, they have raised their own frequency (or frequency resonance vibration), which naturally alters their perception and interactions in a beneficial way. This may come down to semantics for some, but for me raising one’s frequency is quite different from ’sending love to negative beings’, which is fruitless, if not draining and potentially harmful.

As I’ve continued gathering knowledge and creating meaning out of all the strange events that come with covert harassment, I’ve learned a great deal about the shortcomings and fears of those who participate as stalkers. I’ve come to be able to empathize with their situation and levels of development. This does not mean that they are not responsible for their actions, and it does not erase the pain that they have caused me, yet it has helped me to become a better judge of similar and dissimilar people when it comes to general level of development and ability to understand. When it comes to gang stalking, being able to discern such ‘capacities’ in others can make the difference between finding allies or potential vectors of attack. So, while understanding of the different types of people and their respective degrees/capacities for understanding covert oppression makes for empathy in people who are compassionate, loving these people does not mean standing by and letting them attack you or feed off of your good intentions. Quite the opposite: learning to feel compassion or love for ‘perps’ means learning to stop feeding them. In my own experiences this came as a realization that my own natural capacity for transmogrifying negativity and limits was being used against me. I kept trying to give people the benefit of the doubt even when they were clearly acting out of only self interest, and even when their self interest was clearly draining my energy. On a more metaphysical mechanical level, I came to see that some of the closest perpetrators, on some level, realized they were benefiting from my ability to ‘turn piss into gold’. I kept internalizing their demons, burdening me with the processing of a lot of transpersonal darkness (it wasn’t really mine to begin with), while they walked away from such interactions feeling much lighter and freer.

Point being: oftentimes leaving someone to sort through their own pieces is the only ’sending of love’ that works or matters at all. Remember, we reside in a realm of Free Will. This means that each of us is free to make mistakes, and sometimes this means hurting others (unintentionally or otherwise). ‘Sending love’ or ‘tuning into love’ should always include the knowledge that everyone is free to learn their own lessons, but more: tuning into Love is always about altering our own frequency, not others’. It’s up to us as individuals to steer toward those with whom we resonate, and to learn not to waste energy on those who are ‘in a different place’ dissimilar from our own. The difference, in practice, means offering perspective to others whom we feel we may resonate with, but with full recognition that they are free to appropriate the perspective however they will. For those who appear as negative beings in our lives it may mean acknowledging that their lessons are their own, and moving on. This can be difficult for someone who likes to help people, but ultimately, those with whom we resonate will let it be known that there is something worth connecting about. Those who are on different paths or different developmental phases sometimes let this be known by overt gestures (like participating in covert harassment as perpetrators) or the negative feeling we have after interacting with them (on a consistent basis). After all, people who are on decidedly different pages do not ’speak the same language’ and so there is often a need to decode their responses to our side of interacting with them. Of course this perspective of mine is regarding extremes that many targets encounter, whereas many situations lie somewhere in the middle.Yet again, the same guidelines appear: compassion means offering perspective and being open to others’ perspectives. Only time and real interaction show if two beings are relevant to each other in a mutually positive way. If someone is not, sending them love in the form of a parting ‘I respect your right to walk your own path’ is a move congruent with a greater good, whereas sending them love in the form of heartfelt intention to change them or their perspective, or investing your more primal consciousness / energy in willing them personal development is a waste of energy.